I am spending every weekend with Mother now. This is very hard for me. I seem to never have a minute to myself. She can't be alone so Orlue and I are with her every second. It's hard on us both, but I think it's even harded on Mother. She has always been so independent and now has to rely on others for everything. I have decided I will not get any older. I will stay 60 so I can take care of myself. Wouldn't that be cool if we could pick an age to just stop.